Tuesday, 2 April 2024

TWO POSITIVE THINGS WE CAN ALL HAVE

                             TWO POSITIVE THINGS
            EVERYONE CAN HAVE IN THEIR LIFE

MUSIC  &  A GARDEN

The Essence of Flowers share the same Beauty as Music.


Music and gardening are a great way to relax and enjoy the day, or just a few spare minutes, that we have in our day.   You don't have to listen to an entire 
album, or have a huge garden.  Simplicity is the key.  A container box filled 
with easy to grow herbs, parsley, basil, mint, rosemary, sage.  If you look 
at the big box shops, you will usually find seeds for .50 or less per package. 
Use what you have, repurpose an old container that you aren't using for it's original purpose.  Most big box stores have extra potting containers that you can get for free.  Use some acrylic paint to create a motif or to simply paint the name of the herbs on.  If you have an outdoor space that plants can go in the ground, you can simply dig a hole the same size as the container and put in the ground if you won't want it as a stand alone statement.  

Why music and gardening? Because just like us, plants thrive with music also.  I won't go into the science behind that, but I think maybe it's because the pollen spreads from the sound waves created, probably more the bass sounds that the other, but that's just my opinion.  

What exactly does music and gardening do to our bodies? 
1) It can elevate our moods into happier thoughts and places. 
2) It can help us remember happier times, places, people
3) It can help us to R E L A X  and simply reach a place in our minds that I call OBLIVION.  That is what I love about gardening and music.  It's a place where nothing else matters, where I can exist without life interfering in my happiness. 
4) Both can lower blood pressure and sugar levels, help to negate panic and anxiety, and help us heal.

 So, go find your happy place, today my suggestion would be listening to 
Neal McCoy's The City Put the Country Back in Me; Chapel Hart (anything by her); Walker Hayes - Fancy Like ; Eagles - Take It To The Limit; Alan Jackson - Chattahooche - Dobie Gray - Drift Away.  Add in some Rolling Stones, BTO, and Staind, and you have a pretty good mix going already.  Don't forget to add in some Nitty Gritty Dirt Band to your mix.  

So, what songs make you happy?  What songs make you sad?  What songs take you to that OBLIVION PLANET?



Friday, 6 January 2023

Netherland's and Their Obsession with Christmas and New Years Fireworks (Vuurwerk)

 Netherland's and Their Obsession with Christmas and New Years Fireworks (Vuurwerk)

I am, each year, amazed with the amount of fireworks that are set off in the weeks leading up to Christmas, Christmas, and the weeks between the Christmas weeks and New Years, and New Years Eve is just totally extreme here.  One must realize where I am, there are houses similar in build to the 2-3 story family style condos that house one family in the US, but where there are 3 or more under the same roof side by side and connected.  Unlike the US however, these houses have block walls between and no insulation, very uneconomical heating wise, and noise wise.  Also, the autos are mostly parked on the street, and most streets in these areas are one way streets.  Fortunately I at least do not live on a one way street, so the distance from the houses across are greater because of the 2 sides parking of autos and the lane for traffic.  What is disturbing is that people set off fireworks with all the autos sitting on the street.  For those of you that know me from the US, you know my worst nightmare came true when on NYE night I look out of my bedroom window to see my friend's house down the street totally engulfed in flames, they were out of town, but their beautiful dog was home.  The culprit, children's fireworks, not the gigantic fireworks, but those little fireworks that spin and shoot off sparks.  According to the experts on the scene one had apparently gotten into the open car garage and the sparks had caused the start of the fire.  To say I felt helpless is beyond comprehension, and although I begged the fire brigade to allow me to open the back door in hopes the dog was laying there, they would not allow that due to a fear of back draft.  I could only watch helplessly as they attempted to contain the fire.  

People here have no sense of impending doom, they have no realization of how deadly fireworks can be, or how one can be maimed beyond comprehension until they actually see someone they love having encountered one or the other.  I can talk until the cows come home to the people in this area, but their desire to SHOW OFF AGAINST THEIR NEIGHBORS is more important.  It's a dual between houses here to compete.  The sadder thing, is that these people do not have an income that is high enough to afford them real luxuries on a regular basis, some never.  Thus, they spend all this money (Millions here each year), to show off and then their families have to sacrifice food wise, clothing wise, etc. because of these poor choices.  

Now imagine this, this small country which one can travel 6 hours from top to bottom of, is one of the most stringent and expensive with regards to recycling, air quality, use of gas, petroleum, etc.  The thing now is to reduce the number of cows because their "gas output" is bad for the environment.  I submit that if they stopped the fireworks totally by consumers and offered only the option of cities holding firework events, we would not be breathing the smoke and fumes from the fireworks.  This year a street two streets away from me, one literally had to drive on the sidewalk because of the debris after 12 that night was higher than the opening for the door on the car, and quite dangerous to drive over considering these are battery operated fireworks shooting large balls and if a battery stopped and one rides over, the danger of these exploding and setting a car on fire is quite high.  The debris was still there the following day, piles of debris.  So many streets were full of debris, and all of the debris has to be picked up, supposedly recycled.  So therein lies another problem, thousands of battery operated fireworks that the batteries have to be disposed of, but most likely they go in the normal trash and thus more dangerous for the environment.  So WHY ARE PEOPLE HERE PAYING ENORMOUS TAXES AND GOING TO EXTREME MEASURES to "save the planet", but yet in four weeks they destroy more of the environment than ten million cows.  Ten million cows would not form the vast amount of smoke that literally makes it so you can not see where you are going for 24 hours, destroys the air quality, and is an environmental nightmare with the debris that is not recycled.  

Where oh where is the government in all of this?  Supposedly too few police and help to contain it.  
That's a total cop out!  When their handhaver's have time to go around collecting trash cans that have stood overnight on the street, they could, use those to actually stop the fireworks.  It's actually quite easy to stop, no import or export of fireworks except to the City, asking surrounding countries to ask for ID to purchase in surrounding countries and not allow Netherland's citizen's to purchase, and the City has access to thousands of cameras, they can see who is setting off fireworks.  

The answer to this is:  Legislation Banning all Fireworks, smoke makers, or Loud Noise Makers (including children's fireworks), in any space that has houses, on or near any streets.   Legislation that allows on the City to purchase fireworks for a public display put on by the city.  This legislation can not be bypassed by renaming articles that produce smoke, fireworks, Noise Makers etc.   I am sure some sneaky company will try to rebrand fireworks or noise makers or smokers or M80s etc. to some other name, but legislation needs to forbid any type of these fireworks and associated Loud Noise "bombs".  This needs to be a Netherland's wide legislation and the government needs to instill a ruling that anyone that disobeys these rules is required to pay $20,000 per each one that is set off, and in the event they can not pay, their personal assets will be utilized to pay for these events.  

THIS IS SERIOUS, this year at least one child was maimed here, hand amputated and an eye because of fireworks on New Years Eve.  I am sure there are many more cases that went unreported by the media, and many that were not melded on at the police department or hospital.  Who knows how many children were injured and NOT taken to the hospital for fear of repercussions.  Do you also know who else is damaged and injured by these?  Animals, Dogs scared for hours at a time, dogs that can not even go outside to the bathroom because of all the noise, smoke and danger of being hit by a flying burning element or debris from.  Think of all the poor birds and small animals that are damaged when they become too tired to go further.  This is just total nonsense.  

So, in the new year I am going to find out how to properly request legislation, and gather as much support from people here on a petition, and I hope the news media will be onboard with helping.  

This not only traumatizes those that I named above, but people with anxiety and mental disorders become overwhelmed and have seizures and many other complications from the hours and hours of being distressed with the constant shooting off of these noise makers and fireworks.  IT IS INHUMANE!!!!!


2023 - A New Year - New Chances

 2023 A New Year - New Chances 
January 1, 2023 

So last year was a bit better Corona wise.  By the end of the year I had had Corona twice, the first time quite heavy, the second much less.  For gardening, 2022 was an amazing year, I am so thankful for all of the tomatoes, peppers, eggplant and other vegetables including bumper bean crops.  The hot temperatures were perfect for me, as I am much more savvy with growing in hot temps than in the normal cooler and rainy temps in the Netherlands.  I love the heat, I have less issues with my health and overall well being, so for me, the heat is a wonderful thing.  

Fast forward to 2023 - We have had a very mild winter with just a few really cold days thus far, and I am so thankful God has given me this gift.  The wear and tear on my body is much less with the milder temperatures and I can actually do normal outside things like a normal person, which I can not in the colder temps.  I have issues with my finger tips and toes and skin where the cold temperatures cause my body temps in those areas to be much lower than normal people, and that also includes circulation issues when the weather is cold, so to say I am thankful for the warmth, is quite an understatement.  

2023 What Now?

I need a reset, I need to get back to the mindset that I can overcome things, that I can find a way to do all the things I want to, and to find a way to get my body to cooperate.  Old age -- get behind me, all the illnesses get behind me.  

So, prayers would be appreciated, encouraging words would be appreciated, and a helping hand is welcome.  

God Bless All of You, today and in the coming year.  God Bless Us All.  
Sometimes it's easy to forget that the baby child born in that lowly stall can lift us up above all, as long as we ask and believe.  


Saturday, 28 May 2022

Companion Planting For Tomatoes

Companion Planting For Tomatoes 

Tomatoes are the one must have staple in my garden.  I LOVE tomatoes.  So in order to help them grow and ward off pests and disease, I typically grow basil with my tomatoes, but there are other plants that are beneficial to them as well.

Did you know that planting mustard in the fall where you plant your tomatoes helps them grow?  The reason, mustard when grown and turned under increases the nitrogen in the soil and reduces the risk of many soil fungus and virus.

Additionally there are other things that work to help tomatoes.  Tomatoes are self fertilizing, but it never hurts to have bumble bees doing the pollination work for you.  The bumble bees vibrate which enhances the fertilization process.  To attract them, plant flowers with hooded caps, rosemary, sunflowers, etc.  They will increase your yields.

If you live in dryer areas, mulch under your plants or use black ground cover, it keeps the soil warm when the temperatures are colder and the tomatoes will not have setbacks due to temperature change.

Other companions for tomatoes include using clover as a cover crop, the same principle as with mustard or collards.  

You can interplant stock beans, climbing beans that flower to attract the bumble bees as well.  

Incidentally, basil works to repel hornworns and other tomato pests, flea beetles because the scent masks the tomato scent thus they will attack the basil instead of tomatoes.

All in all, it never hurts to have flowers growing around our veggie patches, not only are they beautiful, but they provide a source of food for wildlife that we want to have around, and in addition to keeping our veggies safe.


Wednesday, 25 May 2022

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Europa Charm: What Works to Rid The Garden of Snails

What Works to Rid The Garden of Snails

 WHAT WORKS TO RID THE GARDEN OF SNAILS?

It is not by chance that one snail turns into hundred, they have an average cycle of 80 plus times per year, some can lay 50 or more eggs at a time, but normally one snail equates to 480 in one year.  Snails do not need a partner, they have both organs, but they can fertilize with other snails. 
So this is the nightmare - Snails have parties with or without mates, and one snail reproducing equates to over 400 MORE!!!!!!  So it's a WAR, not for the faint hearted.  So what ammo do we use?   SKIP to #10 if you don't want the long version.  


Unless you are starting with raised beds with a perimeter border that's covered, and soil that has no eggs, etc., pests including snails will eventually be an issue, unless you are in a area where they are not populating.  I didn't have to worry about snails in Atlanta, but the Netherlands is a S N A I L  / S L A K K E N haven.  When it rains walking down a sidewalk you will have an issue in some areas of crunch crunch which are snails with houses, all over the sidewalks.  GROSS!!!! 

Since I am in an allotment garden with 100 or so others, those that don't work to control and rid their area, make it difficult for those that do.  Since our allotments are supposed to be totally organic, we are not suppose to use any chemicals that are not designated for household use.  

So what works? 

1.  Hands in your gloves and your trowel and pick them up late at night (with a flashlight), and in the early morning hours.  Dispose of as you choose.

Here the snails are huge, some 3" wide and 8 inches long, with of course the ones that are not fully grown ranging in various sizes, and the house snails, the babies are so tiny you can hardly see, but the adults with houses can be a couple inches tall or more.  A small snail can eat alot, but the big ones can eat through an entire stem on a pumpkin or cucumber plant.  My friend planted 10 pumpkins the smaller candy variety, they were well developed when she planted, around 12 inches high and 8 inches in leaves across, each plant was totally decimated, one plant had over 50 small and large snails on it, some the entire stem had been eaten through and it was just terrible to see.  When she set them out she didn't have much growing in her space, and nothing that they really like, so I guess the pumpkins were their SNAIL FESTIVAL.  

2.  The two plants that I have that they do not like are raspberries (with thorns) and blackberries with thorns.  I planted strawberries inside a circle of raspberries and they have done beautifully, now whether it's because they haven't found them yet, or if it is because they don't like the prickles from the raspberry thorns, I am not 100% sure, I did put some of last years dried shoots with thorns around them.  Everyone told me gritty sand, eggshells, gravel, oyster shells, sea shells, and none of those worked, in fact, the sand seemed to attract more.  

3.  I do use drie hoek on newspaper when it's dry, i just pin down the newspaper with stones and use the concentrated drie hoek, it makes a slimy mess of them and when I do it I can just with gloved hands ball up the paper and dispose of it the next morning.  I use the drie hoek instead of salt because it deters ants.  I also spray regularly or water with garlic water, I just mince up garlic and let it sit in the sun for a few days in a bucket of water with a net over and then strain and dilute with water in watering can or sprayer.  My hope is that it deters the squash bugs and other insects that aren't good, and makes the leaves not so tasty.  I have also sprayed wd40 on buckets and placed them around small plants, but the issue is them tunneling under, so now I just try to protect the stems as well by covering in aluminum foil or a banana peel with the inside peel against the stems and the outside I use canola oil on.  

4.  This is a battle here, so an old rotten board with newspaper and drie hoek work as a trap, and again, it's easy to pick up and get rid of.  

5.  Copper tape works to some extent, but unless it's a pot where you can put it on a stone so it doesn't get dirt and debris on it, it isn't so effective, and it isn't cheap.  I did glue down copper pennies on some pots and that worked better, but the new pennies are not made of copper.  

6.  Marigolds - I thought they were suppose to deter snails, but they decimated two 6" pots in two days, the only thing left was a bit of stem, so since the seeds were cheap I have sowed tons of seeds, and I'm going to use those as traps.  I'll update on my progress. 

7.  A quick story about the "19.99" covers, a few years ago there was the hype of these covers for plants, the idea was that the snails couldn't get to your plants.  Wow great, so this fool purchased and planted her lovely lettuce starts and put the cover on.  Wow first day amazing, not a bite eten, snail trails around the outside and on it, but none inside.  Fast forward to day 5, because these were starts I had done in the greenhouse, they were already beginning to ball when I planted, and I actually thought that would deter the snails also, I looked didn't see any snails and watered.  A few days later I went to the garden and was doing my weed pulling and daily check, the inside of the balls were full of snails, small snail and larger snails, and the outside also.  Every single plant was totally covered, it was a sickening mess.  I really didn't understand how that could have happened, until an older man said in Dutch of course, die slakken zijn slim (these snail here are smart), they will find their way in by tunneling under, and hiding under the leaves, where it's nice and moist and cool when the sun comes out, and unless you use a box that has a barrier in the bottom, on the sides and over the top, and assuming there are no eggs in your soil they will get in.  His solution, grow them in pots and hang them up, and check daily if one has climbed up the posts.  He uses a potting mix to plant in not garden soil.
For the rest of his garden he used a hand trowel with spikes on it to go over the soil on the outside of his beds, he said it's harder for them to crawl in the dirt than when it is compacted down, so they look for easy paths, i.e., stones to travel quicker and easier.  

8.  In really bad years I have resorted to baiting with beer traps (a plastic cup or tin can down in a hole so the top rim is the only thing above ground, let them go to drink the beer and they fall in, however here because the snails are so HUGE that didn't work, I had to actually use a flower pot with no bottom holes (a ceramic one), so they didn't climb back on by climbing on the top of each other.  The small cup and tin can just let them have a beer party, and they were laughing all the way back to my plants to have a final snack before the sun came up!!!!!!  The alternative to that trap is dry yeast in warm water, they are attracted to that as well.  The reason I know that?  In the US I used yeast in my compost to heat it up in the winter months, and I tried that here in Snailville, I ended up with a compost container full of snails, I had to take the entire batch to the recycle center because it was totally full of snails, all sorts!  Epic failure, but a lesson learned.  

9.  I use alot of essential oils at home, and I really want to do an experiment if certain essential oils will repel them if I keep plants or soil sprayed with it, but the issue here is the RAIN, most years we have rain at some point everyday, some weeks an entire week of mostly rain, it is much less this year, but I am holding my breath hoping for a dry summer.  

10.  So what are your choices for snail control?

A)  Plant victim crops on the outside of beds.  
B)  Beer or Yeast Traps
C) Cultivating the outer areas of beds and around the outside root areas of plants daily.
D)  Using drie hoek and newspaper or boards as bait (or salt instead of drie hoek) - But make sure it does not rain because salt can kill plants) 
E)   Using prickly items like raspberry branches to put around plants 
F)   Hand Picking Night and Mornings to control what you can see
G)  Plant Marigolds and plants they love as victim plants
H)  Garlic water to make leaves not taste so good
I)    Insecticidal soap for same reason as garlic water
J)    Resort to using organic pellets 
K)   Copper Tape 
L)    Luring birds to eat the snails (but beware they also eat your berries and other veggies.)

My conclusion is that A-L are all viable options, but I think it takes using ALL of those methods basically to control them.  The more you totally alleviate, the less that can reproduce. 


I think it's easier if you are not in an allotment garden, open compost piles with veggies attract snails, and many people think if they are eating there then they are leaving my vegetables alone.  There is no logic with that, because feeding them on demand also creates reproduction on demand which means they are multiplying much faster and developing much quicker because of a constant food supply on hand with no travel time involved to hunt for food.  So think if you have only 30 snails in the bin, 30x400 equates to 1200 new snails which turn into 6000 give or take a few.  I read an article that was written in England where they didn't want you to HARM THE SNAILs anymore.  Well world hunger is a thing, and the more snails eating plants means less food for all, so where's the logic in that?  What benefit do snails actually bring to a garden?  So far I haven't seen one thing that benefits from having snails in it's vicinity, certainly not my plants, so some hair brain doesn't want to control them, I hope they take over HIS HOUSE for a month or two, and everytime he walks they go CRUNCH under his feet and slime trails on everything he owns, then maybe he will help look for a viable ORGANIC solution. 





Friday, 20 May 2022

And Then The Rain Came

 And Then The Rain Came

After an early spring, our little dry spell ended yesterday with wild winds and today came the torrential downpour of rain, it was so heavy and hard, I fear my plants are trampled by the storm.  

My aubergine /eggplants 5 in total standing a foot tall looked so majestic this morning, I plucked their tiny leaves and bottom stems, and poured garlic water around, and placed crushed garlic cubes in their spaces, hoping it would ward off the evil snails and house snails that would want to gobble up their stems and leaves.  My strawberries in their hole filled barrels, turning red and still have some beautiful blooms.  My tomatoes are only 3-5 feet tall, but full of blooms, and I hope I had enough bees inside the greenhouse to pollinate them.  I have alot of hummers, (bumble bees), but my honeybees seem to have disappeared, and I normally depend on them for pollination.  I'm not sure if its because the bee keeper in the garden has moved or sold them, but my garden was always buzzing with them, but not this year.  The hummers and I have an unvoiced understanding, they are always welcome to visit, and they don't even bother when I move or trim leaves, they just keep on enjoying their snacks, and this year they loved the big blooms from the foxglove, it bloomed early and they can fit all the way inside it's huge blooms.  They have been busy with the rosemary bush, surprising though they don't like the thyme that is now in bloom, but normally the honeybees do.  I guess like us, they have their own ideas of what dessert is :) ..  The bell peppers in the green house are growing with gusto in my tunnel, but in the enclosed they seem to have stalled their growth and have started putting on fruits.  I was tempted to remove the fruits but decided it's nature, let them decide what to do.  My currants were totally full of strands, some even starting to change colors, but I'm afraid the wind and rains have damaged them, and I was hopeful for a good harvest because last years was a total bust.  My raspberries keep sending out new shoots and I keep removing them, I think for next year I am going to grow in 5 gallon buckets so they are contained, it's so much work trying to choose which go and which stay.  My grape vines are putting on lots of leafs, or at least one is, the others seem slow to take off this year.  I was hoping this year I would get to harvest more than a handful.  We have here a type of vole animal that eats the roots and sometimes entire plants, and they have tunneled throughout my garden, the latest victims were my prei, my beautiful prei, totally eten without a bit left in a hole.  Today I replanted those holes with red onions which I had left from the previous year, I let them sprout, then I take off the outer shell and usually have 2-4 or more different small plants which I cut apart at the bottom stem and replant.  I planted a few more of the Cardinal Beans today, I want to provide as many blooms as possible to attract to my aubergines.  

I guess in the morning I will know how much damage was done. 

Here's the tips I was given for growing aubergines / eggplants.

Take the new growth off the bottom and strip all but the top branches to allow the energy to go to producing fruit instead of foliage and new offshoots.  I planted mine in composted manure and biosoil surrounded by normal soil and I added crushed garlic to the hole in hopes of keeping the wool ratten at bay, and I hope I succeed because I have put all five out and have no spares. 

I also caged three in hopes of being able to cover if the rains continue, my thoughts were I could use part of my old green house and tie over the top.  I hope that isn't going to be needed. 

I dreaded the rain returning because it isn't good for my health, the dark dreary days and the rains and cold dampness make my back and joints hurt.  But maybe this year I'll be provided warmth and less pain. 

Happy gardening, and thanks for sharing my gardening ventures.


Space & Time

 A Space And Time

Perhaps we are connected within a space or realm that time holds the connection to, one which we have no control over and leaves us vulnerable to prey.  Maybe our existence depends on our ability to adapt and restructure and to overcome perils that are in our paths.

What happens when we can't adapt or restructure?  When we can't find it within ourselves to make the choices that will cause that reoccurrence?   Do we become like the lost city, or the people of the pyramids?  Lost but known that we were here because of some mythical story or a letter or maybe even a post that says I was here, in this place, that I was not unknown by many, but forgotten by some.  


Monday, 9 May 2022

Mother's Day Weekend

Mother's Day Weekend

Well after another flopped Mother's day, I can say I am through celebrating that holiday.  Of one thing I am sure, good manners and R E S P E C T are still positive things, unless you live in the Netherlands and have an obstinate dutch woman that has no manners or respect. 
After spending hours standing on my feet baking one layer at a time crepes to make a 20 layer crepe for her, I arrive to find she has gone shopping for a few hours to shop for a pie for Mother's Day.  ROFL 
Ok I'm sure there are some that their daughters don't bake or daughter in laws, but really you buy your OWN?  Pfffft  I should have just laughed and left it sitting there and gone on my way which was my first inclination, but my good manners got the better of me, so I stayed until she arrived.  Then I was told the "hostess" always provides the food, now mind you I've been baking a cake or a vlaii as they call them here for 8 long years, without fail, and there sits a beautiful whipped cream and apricot layered cake which by this time the whipped cream has fallen because it's suppose to be eaten straight away, not sitting in a house where the temperature was 90 degrees because Pops was cold and had the heater in there on and the sun streaming in all the windows.  To say I was not happy is a very mild expression of how I felt, so I decided to each his own, eat MY cake and go home as quickly as possible, but she continued with her rhetoric, so I cut myself a slice and put on my plate and started eating, she asked where is ours?  I said there and you can take what you want, or you can eat YOUR PIE THAT YOU BOUGHT FOR MOTHER'S DAY.  She said I don't like that, and I said, well I don't like standing on my feet while I am sick BAKING FOR HOURS and then it isn't appreciated, so I guess we are even there. 

Afterwards I went home and went to my happy place and I was suppose to cook dinner for HER and everyone, but my sister called me from the states and we talked for hours on the phone while I was in the garden and since we only get to do that when she has a day free, which is not often, THAT IS MOST IMPORTANT TO ME, so I talked and gardened and forgot the time, by the time my phone alerted the battery was going I was one and half hours late to cook and everyone was mad, thus what did I do?  I went home, drank coffee, took a shower, rested my back for an hour and returned to my happy place. 

So the moral to this story is, SOME PEOPLE ARE DIFFICULT AND MEAN and you can not please them, what you should do is just rid yourself of the toxic people in your life and move on, because honestly all they do is drag you down with them, you keep fighting to be the best person you can be, but ultimately they drag you down in the mud with them, and sorry but I like my feet clean and dry, even in the garden. 

Does my heart hurt?  Yes it does, more than most would understand, because I was taught good manners and treating Mother's with respect was the right thing to do.  However, I find that I am unable to comprehend why those do not matter to Dutch women, or that Dutch woman in particular.  I don't usually air my laundry out in the open, and was taught NOT to do that also, but there comes a time when you need to just let people see for themselves WHY YOU STRUGGLE.  I struggle because of the insensitive and utterly rude and mean people that surround me, and as my Mama said, if you lay with dogs you are gonna get fleas.  So I need to pick myself up out of the mire and spray some flea protectant and get away from these people.  Toxic pest ridden environments bring on health issues, worsen health issues and make for an unhappy life, thus sometimes we need to pull out the pesticide and start spraying.


 

Friday, 6 May 2022

Gardening This Week PRIMA

 Gardening 2022 May 1st Friday -- 

Because I planted mustard basically over most of one garden, and because we did not have the typical Spring rain that lasts for weeks, I had very few weeds, which was lovely, actually it is HEAVENLY.  There are some tiny ones, but so far that's been a breeze, and I could not be happier.  For the first time since having these gardens I could actually do things that needed doing without first having to clear paths (except one area, the area behind one garden where I have storage is under trees and full of leaf debris, but a good sweep should take care of most of that, I started that tonight after sweeping the other pathways and really over did my back, sweeping is not good for the back at all!  

So let's talk about what is growing, I have tomatoes already in the ground in the greenhouse, and some bell peppers.  I also have peppers and bell peppers planted outside.  My sage plant that is three years old is getting very large and is in full bloom.  My borage plants are starting to grow well, and the cat mint plant is also very large despite me cutting him back in the fall, as well as my lemon melisse herb.  The star of the show or stars I should say are the trees, the plum has alot of plums, the apple has alot of tiny apples, and sadly, my Russian peach tree nothing, I think I have to take it out, it had leaf curl and was not doing well, so I shaved him and I hope that and some meds and he will recover.  The other star of the show - my COMFREY, and lo and behold I have one that is white flowers and the others the traditional purple.  They did well overwintering, and didn't seem to have minded the temps here, or all the rain.  My Limburg spinach is coming up randomly, and the beans I planted a week ago are coming up.  The raspberries are growing rapidly despite the cutting back I did, and one has blooms.  My strawberries in their standing barrels with holes cut in and plants poking out have large berries already.  I want in a couple of weeks to build a wooden storage area for my pots and containers, fertilizers, etc., and something that looks presentable, not mix match.  

I need to turn the compost in the open bin, and check the other bins to see if there is anything composted.  I'm really not going to grow an extensive amount of veggies this year, just the things that I eat on a regular basis.  I do have a hundred plus leeks that went in the ground over the weekend, and a row of shallots, a row or two of peas, a couple of cabbage and salad fixings, and a few more paprika plants and tomatoes, I have those at home growing so I can water easily daily, but they are still too small to set out.  Of course a couple of courgettes, and cucumbers and I am hoping my tiny cucumbers do well, they are just now coming up from seed, a little late, but fingers crossed.  

I also planted a gooseberry plant that I stuck a branch down in dirt last year, he doesn't seem to have minded rehousing.  

Normally here next week would really be the week to start, so alot is growing ahead of normal, always a good thing.

All in all, the sun and the beauty of watching items grow, amazing!

A Gardener's Prayer

Thank you for all the beauty you bring into my world, 
Thank you for all the wonderful tastes that you bring to my table
Thank you for all the bees, butterflies, birds and other creatures that work to pollinate my garden.
Thank you Lord for allowing me these pleasures.  



Friday, 29 April 2022

Corona Free or Corona Dormancy?

 After nearly 3 years of Corona and it's variants running rampant around Europe and the rest of the world, being under quarantine and house arrest so to speak for months, it is really hard to believe the exhilarating feeling one has from feeling like perhaps we have reached some level of freeness, but at the same time I am still wearing masks in public spaces indoors although I seem to be frankly one of the few that is.  We are starting to see the crunch from Putin's war, as sunflower oil and flour are becoming rare to find in the shops, and fuel prices have escalated to the point of unbelievable prices, but in my world, spring and her wonders came early this year and gardening has begun, so whether corona again overtakes us, or leaves us, at least I have an early start to the grow season and have sunshine and warmth, and those two things make me a happy person.  Blessings from above, the bees working their magic on my rosemary, and the cabbage moths were flying blinding about searching for unsuspecting targets, their white butterfly appearance is really a cover for what they do to cabbage and cabbage family plants, but I still like to see them fluttering around.  I have not seen the dragon flies yet, but I am sure soon they will be darting around at high speeds.  Spring for me is a metamorphosis simply like the butterfly I come out of the winter fog of depression from having no sunshine to an eager to take flight person that can't wait to dig in the dirt and watch seeds come to life, plants put on new colors and blossoms that come in varied shades from different plants.  I am even happy to see the sunny yellow faces of the dandelions as they spring into action, their beauty which feeds a multitude with their blossoms and makes horrible rocky ground become a nice planting spot if one can uproot them from their habitat to actually plant something else.  So corona free or not, spring has come and for me, that makes my world ok.

Blessed be.

 

Blessed With Warm Weather in 2022

 AN EARLY SPRING 2022


I am ready to put tomato plants and bell peppers in my greenhouse in the ground.  They have been outside at home on the table for a couple of weeks now and have outgrown their pots to the point of getting root bound, so I am sure they will be happy to have their feet in the ground so they can spread out.  

I spent yesterday replanting a one foot cutting from my gooseberry plant that was broken last year and I put in soil and rooted (well he did all the work, I just stuck him in the ground and watered).  I hope he will like his new home, he liked where he was rooted, but it's in a corner where there is no room for him to grow into a large plant, so I moved him with my blueberry bushes.  They still look scrawny, so I think I need to invest in a couple of new plants and put those two inside until they recover from their lazy streak or whatever it is they are doing or not doing.  

That's actually the gist of this post, when something isn't doing well, sometimes it is just best to take him up and put him in some fresh gardening soil in a pot and tuck away and let it recover, I don't think the variety I have is conducive to the harsh winters here and I can't be certain it is the species that I purchased, because let's face it, mix ups can happen with planting sticks at nursery's, so sometimes we do all we can to make plants happy and it just doesn't seem to help, sometimes they need to recover like humans, a little time resting and rehabilitation.  Plant rehabilitation can be as simple as that, a pot and good soil and rest, other times we may need to treat an infested or diseased plant, and the same methods can be used, treat and in a pot and rest.  

My other issue is my Russian peach tree does not like the wet climate here, it is used to the sunnier temps that were in it's region, as well as the cold in the winter months, and I have plucked his poor leaves off and I am going to treat him tomorrow to a good dose of epsom salt water via his roots and a spray of waters of peroxide to kill any fungus.  I hope that perhaps that will help rid him of whatever fungal issues he may have and stop the leaves from turning into clubbed leaves.  There were no signs of aphids, and hopefully they don't attack him now that I removed so many of his leaves, fingers crossed.

I have planted one bed with green beans and yellow beans and a row of pole beans, scarlet runners and a blackish purple hull sort, I like the scarlet runners in soup dried, but honestly I grow them for the pretty flowers and because they attract pollinators (shhh that's an insider secret).  

At home my front tiny garden has yellow and orange calendula blooming and bell flowers hanging that are pink and purple varieties, and I have a few plants in my containers, I still want that cottage feel, but the entire front is paving stones and gravel, so my plants are growing in gravel or in between the pavers, not ideal, but it works, and I actually think the plants are stronger than those growing in my regular garden because their roots are wrapped around stones and buried deep in what dirt they manage to reach.  

I feel so blessed that spring was a month earlier, having a warm April is a God sent gift from above, and one I am thankful for.  Long winters and the cold are not my "cup of tea", and my body really doesn't do well with those, so sunshine and warmth are always welcomed by me.

I wish all of you a happy gardening season this year.



Friday, 15 April 2022

Type 1 Diabetes Insulin Pumps

 TYPE 1 Diabetes

One of the worst illnesses and diseases one can have.  
I would love to hear from people on how they manage theirs, and if they use an insulin pump.


2022 THE GARDENING HAS BEGUN

 GARDENING NEWS 2022


Today is Good Friday.  Efoundaster is this Sunday, and I was busy in my garden this week.  Yesterday I managed to clean the areas under the strawberry containers and cleaned alot of weeds and leaf debris away.  It was a good start, but I have alot left to do to get everything ready and planted.  I did feel happy when I went and found that planting the mustard seeds in the fall had alleviated most of the weeds.  That was a welcome reprieve, and I now wish I had planted in both gardens, but the other one isn't so bad, it will take a few days of pulling and digging out small weeds and cleaning in between the garden tiled walkpads to get it into shape, but nothing like last year.  So lesson learned, start early in the fall cleaning out beds and planting mustard seeds or covering with black perforated film, I did that in one large bed, and while it's more expensive than mustard seed, it is less work than pulling out all of the mustard plants, or digging them under.  I wanted them for green compost because previously I shared a garden with someone and they put mostly browns in the compost box, so it hasn't really composted much since last year, so I am hoping the mixing of all the mustard vines and leaves with kick start it.  

I have tomato and bell pepper plants at home growing to put in the garden, it's easier than having to go check everyday on them and it was too cold to start them before last week.  

I'm hoping for a hot and dry summer.  OH and I forgot to mention, my strawberries are already getting blooms and my apple tree is in full bloom, but my peachtree from Russia is sick :( . 

It's only in the low 50s here today, so I am pressure washing my garden tiles - a very nasty but necessary job :( 



Monday, 4 April 2022

News Update & A SunFlower Revolution

 Here in Europe the war between Ukraine and Russia has severely compromised food items, at this point mainly cooking oil, sunflowers, flour products.  

I'm afraid it is going to be very serious for both Europe and the US if this war escalates and more sanctions are put into place.  The fuel is certainly an issue as the prices are creating severe issues for Netherlanders and Germans, and I am sure the rest of Europe will soon be looking for alternative fuel sources.  The Netherlands produces alot of their fuel through wind turbines, as you see across Europe, but many homes here have solar panels, but they do not produce enough with the lack of sunlight to cover the winter months, and of course without sunlight the production is not as great.  

Between the corona virus which affected us for more than two years already, we now have these new struggles, and with the deficit of what corona causes to businesses, this war will have a major impact on many businesses throughout the world. 

Everyone has been so focused on building technology, the food production for the world has been forgotten, farmers have decreased on an exceptionally large scale, with farms being bought up by foreign entitites and taken over for housing and business use.  What the planners forgot, was that everyone has to eat, and also that we need to manufacture our own medicines and necessary basic items that convert food into cooking oil and other necessary products.  International trade for so many products that are a necessity is both dangerous and quite foolish.  We open ourselves up to depend and rely on other countries for the bulk of many items, and that is most definitely a scenario for failure, but our planners have not made arrangements for the what IF scenario.  

I am afraid we are on the brink of needing Victory Garden's like were grown in older times in America, food rationing and gasoline rationing were common during that time, and it appears that the cycle will again repeat itself, but the problem is, the lack of space to grow and the knowledge.  There is also the issue of seeds and preparation.  Many are ill equipped to attempt such an endeavor, and many will try and fail and seeds that could have been utilized to make good crops will be lost.  

Imagine what could happen if every family planted 20 sunflowers that survived, and those 20 were taken to a refinery to be utilized to produce sunflower oil, sunflowers can be grown easily without a great deal of experience of work, but the seeds must be covered with protective mesh fabric to keep birds from eating them.  

So, let's start a sunflower revolution.  Join Me?

The ABC's of Gardening

 THE ALPHABET OF GARDENING

G -- Grow it Like You Want to Eat it.  Grow what YOU like to eat, grow pretty varieties that will encourage youngsters and non vegetable lovers to want to try.  
Suggestions:  Kale - Kale seeds can be purchased in pretty colors, orange, red, yellow...  These plants are extremely pretty and the taste is the same.  Carrots are another vegetable that come in many different sizes and colors, you can grow tiny round or short carrots, winter or summer carrots that are normal, they all have a great taste and add something special to your dishes, color.
Suggestions:  Kale - Kale seeds can be purchased in pretty colors, orange, red, yellow...  These plants are extremely pretty and the taste is the same.  Carrots are another vegetable that come in many different sizes and colors, you can grow tiny round or short carrots, winter or summer carrots that are normal, they all have a great taste and add something special to your dishes, color.  

A - Add flowers to your garden, edible ones, i.e., 

  • Hibiscus (Non Ornamental) can also be eaten. 
  • Lavender - While known for it's amazing scent, it is also edible and makes an amazing taste difference in pastry items such as cupcakes and other baked goods. 
  • Pansy. ...  Known for it's massive growth in hanging baskets, and over winter blooms, this flower is a show stopper on top of cakes and baked goods. 
  • Roses - beautiful in many colors and types, and the rose hips make great rose oil for the skin. 
  • Sage Flower - Sage while normally used for medicinal purposes and in meat and bread dishes, the flower has a somewhat different taste flavor, and is especially good on and in breads.  
  • Dandelions aka Weed Flower - These have a honey taste and make great tea and the greens are also edible. 
  • Honey Suckle - If you haven't eaten honeysuckles on a warm evening when the sun has left them a bit warm, and their fragrance fills the air, then you have missed out on a childhood experience.  
  • Nasturtium - Available in several colors, is probably my favorite flower to use with baked goods, when sugared and placed on cakes, it is the ultimate cake topper.  

    There are other flowers that are edible, these are the ones I am most familiar with.  Before you eat flowers, please make sure they have not been sprayed with insecticides, grow your own organically. 

R - Rich soil with compost and natural fertilizers is one of the key items to growing beautiful vegetables and fruits. 

D - Do make sure you try to grow things as organically as possible, plant cover crops to control weeds, and do a bit of maintenance every week so that your garden does not become a massive time stealer when it gets out of control.  You won't miss 15 minutes a day, but an entire day of weeding and cleaning isn't ideal when you let it go. 


E - Even gardens need TLC, fertilizer, water, good nutritious soil, compost, etc.  Evaluate your soil, your vegetables, like us, prefer certain optimal conditions to grow and live, too dry isn't great, too wet is really bad, not enough fertilizer or compost, ... evaluate and figure out what type of soil you have, sandy, clay, silty, etc.  Then you can amend it to provide your plants their ultimate growth environment.  Know your plants, lettuce likes cooler temperatures and bolts when it's too warm, spinach also, so if you want to grow in the summer you will need shade barriers in hot temps to keep the temp low enough so bolting does not occur.
  

N -
Never say I can't grow xxxx.  If you find the correct medium, the correct temp, the correct watering schedule and have the correct weather you can.  

I --
IMAGINE -- Imagine what you would like to have your garden look like.  Are you more interested in vegetables and fruits than flowers, or more interested in flowers?  You can do both, companion planting with flowers is easily done as long as you plant items together that need the same type of elements.  


N -
Natural Gardening - Using plants and weeds to provide food for bees, birds, and other creatures that need them for survival.  Put a water source for small animals such as bees and birds, it doesn't have to be a pond, it can be a saucer with fresh water that is changed daily, or a pretty container turned into a bird bath.  While some birds can be a nuisance, remember that many of them eat the worms that eat our cabbages, lettuce, etc.  

G - Garden Journal - A garden journal gives you a chance to write down what you are growing, which variety, when you planted, etc., it can also help you grow items better when you see what grows well in your environment.  


What are you GARDENING highlights that you would list alphabetically? 


Monday, 17 January 2022

Cognitive and Effective Learning While on Lockdown from Corona - A Parent's Guide

Homework For CHILDREN IN LOCK DOWN
 (and parents) 

Informal Learning With a Twist

These are activities designed to help your child grown by focusing on items that will engage them and in a patterned learning program, will enhance their abilities to make associations.  We need children to associate various items with normal things while engaging their brain to creatively apply these items in other areas.  I call this patterned learning.  In that sense I am not focusing on repetition so much as the uniqueness of how one helps a child receive information that is delivered.  In order to channel your child's thinking processing into productive and more expedient ways of learning, we can begin to provide them an edge that will create successful learning within parameters that they can successfully meet.  I focus a lot on creativity and language.  These two items set forth fundamental building blocks that ensure your child's future success.  With these simple guides, I have attempted to create from items that you will have at home, even if you are not a home schooling mom or dad.  

It is my hope that you will utilize these as a way to engage your child in creative and patterned learning. 


Today's work includes the following:

For Kinder Care -  Hand prints - Draw the child's hand by placing on paper and tracing around with a pencil or pen.  Ask the child what color their hands are and ask them to pick the color closest from the crayon's you put on the table.  Hold each crayon up and state the color.  Pick the crayons up again one by one and repeat the color and how it is spelled.  Today focus on white  - w h i t e -  w ... water, where, when, why, wing, whistle, write, wish.  Write the focus items on a board or paper, ask the child to write or draw these (age appropriate use here); Let them associate w with why do I need to wash my hands?  Where do I want to go.  What has water?  When do I wash my hands?  What do I use to do this assignment with?  HANDS and hands write, draw, paint, etc.   Make a wish - ....  Use your imagination here.  
At the end of this session, you should have the following:  A paper for each child that has their hands drawn on the paper, the words WHITE, Water, Where, When, Why, Wing, Whistle, Write, Wish.  
Place this paper in their pocket folder, we will further expand on this tomorrow. 

Remember, if your child is getting antsy, and not focusing, ask a question, ask them to raise their hand when they know the answer.  

Note that we are going to use the above also for the lower class program.  Instead of you drawing their hand around their hand, let the student do that themselves.  

For first and second grades - let's focus on their numbers.  
On a second piece of paper have them draw the following:

1 A    1 B  1 C 
A B C  
add the numbers 123
ABC                                        1 2 3 
Have them fill in the alphabet
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z 
12345679 10 

a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s t u v w x y z    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
Now their paper should look like the above example 

Point out the letters A B C -  Apple starts with ? A  America starts with A  Animal Starts with A, etc. 

A- apple, America; animal
B - bug, banana, biscuit
C - cat, color, cap

Have your child write the above, if you are working one on one, this is a good time to stand by your child and point out the different letters in the words.  

The next step is associating these items so that your child remembers. 
A - Apple, America; Animal  etc.  So simply say the word and ask what letter does it start it. 

The next step is actually associating the entire word with how it is actually spelled.  We will start with 
A little girl named Anna ate an apple, then went to school in American and took her stuffed animal. 
Point out the words with the letter A.
Write the words Apple 5 times, America and Animal 5 times. 

So now your paper should look like this. 

 A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z 

12345679 10 

a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s t u v w x y z    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

A- apple, America; animal
B - bug, banana, biscuit
C - cat, color, cap

A                                          B                                                     C 

apple  America animal     bug banana biscuit                         cat color cap
apple America animal      bug banana biscuit                        cat color cap 
apple  America animal     bug banana biscuit                         cat color cap
apple America animal      bug banana biscuit                        cat color cap 
apple  America animal     bug banana biscuit                         cat color cap
apple America animal      bug banana biscuit                        cat color cap 

Note:  I prefer the words to be aligned in columns for patterned cognitive learning. 

The final item to this exercise is to come back to this later the same day or evening.  Please do not do this when a child is actively moving or hyper.  Attempt this when they are calm, perhaps while you are cooking dinner or immediately after eating. 

With the same paper that you have as shown above, have the child turn the paper over.  Give them a pencil and ask them to write A B C 123456890 

Then ask them to write Apple Bug Cat 
Ask them to draw an apple bug  Cat
Color the apple bug cat 
Let them be creative.  

The lesson for tomorrow you will repeat the above with a fresh piece of paper, except for the last part.  
Focus on the words America  Banana  Color 
Word association:  America has a flag with what colors?  Red White and Blue 
Draw the flag, (pull up an american flag or draw one correctly for them to draw from.  
Draw a banana, (take a banana that you have and let them draw around it); if you do not have one, draw or pull up a colored banana (YELLOW).  
Draw a cap - that sits on the head, give them a cap that comes off of a soda or water bottle, let them draw around it.  The cap may prove a bit difficult for them, so make sure you use a line drawing and help where necessary.  
Color all of these items appropriately. 

Here's the additional items you will need everyday for quite sometime.  
A set of A-Z flash cards.  Either make yourself with index cards or print out and attach to cardboard (optional buy).  

The same with numbers 1-25 and in increments of 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100 
Please try to make all of these with the same size and font for both letters and numbers.  
They need to be visible and at least the size of a set of index cards. 

Everyday at different times of the day, use these cards to create word associations.  You can: use tv time is a great time to pick a commercial and ask them to choose the correct letter with whatever product is being offered.  You can give them the cards and ask them to pick letters and put on items in a room.  
Table, Bench, coffee, tea, cola, dog, cat, hat, cap, cape, coat, clock, kitchen, living room, dining room, counter, window, watch, chair, floor, animal, dog, cat, etc.  This is a great activity to motivate and create associations.  So here's where your part comes in, ... D Dog ... also put the A for animal if they do not do that.  T table, associate with Table TOP .... hat ... head   Cap .. color   Cat  Color of cat  watch  color of band  watch  hands ....  

Every day add one of the following to the same game.  
1)  Sound that the chosen object makes  Watch tick tock   Dog woof woof  bark  Cat  Meow  
2)  What color of that item is normal and what color do you not normally see?
3)  How many of that item in the entire house?
4)  Put several forks and spoons in different areas of the house for the student to find.  Give them 3 minutes to find all, but give them 5 letters that they have to put in the room where they found the forks and spoons.  The letter has to match an item - C  Couch  Cat   Christmas Tree  etc. 
5)  Using the same spoons, add some wooden spoons or other cutlery that is non hazardous, place them all on the table or counter.  Have your child count the number of items and write on their daily paper. 
6)  Note:  They should already everyday write the alphabet on their daily paper and the numbers from at least 1-10  then add more each day. 
7)  Start focusing on the vocabulary list that I have provided, have them write at least five of those words every day and draw one of the items from those 5.  Provide crayons or pencils to do this with. 
8)  We are going to incorporate an art project, and note that you can use cardboard instead of a painting canvas if you choose.  You can also reuse the canvas by painting over with white paint and allowing to dry for reuse. 

Art work the first project -  



POGO - TRIVIAL PURSUIT -DAILY 9 (2022) Check it out.

 Pogo Launched a New Trivial Pursuit Game 

in January and rolled out to half of their current subscribers.  The goal was to have interactive gaming for this game, i.e., multi-players.  There is also a daily 9 section, that like the version previously, allows you to capture wedges for answering a series of nine questions on topics such as geography..  

I am listing these as I do them here.  At this point it will be sporadic as I do not have time to do them all at one time from January, however when I am caught up I will attempt to place here each day if at all possible.  

http://www.pogo.com

January 17, 2022 - Honolulu - Sunset Bay - Sun Valley - Santa Claus - Venice - Forest Lawn Cemetery - Victoria Station, London - Italy - Pacho (not lefty :) )

January 10, 2022 - Spain (makes manchego cheese) - France makes Baccarat Crystals - France loves the Head's Monkey Art Work - English is the world wide language spoken in Zimbabwe - Miami - Lenny Bruce said its where the sunset goes to die - Miami - known as the Billion Dollar Sandbar - Bordeaux - Minnesota has the logo the land of the sky tinted water - Aphrodite was the lady of love and beauty.

January 13, 2022 - Nash (centipedes and euripedes) -- Sandberg was poet on Tonight Show - Robert Frost was a 4x Pulitzer Price Winner - Judy Blume was a teen girl's favorite author - Ghandi was theTimes Man of Year Next ? - Udall - Atlas Shrugs Ayn Rand Book - J. Galt -  Ayn Rand Book - Atlas Shrugs  - Allen Ginsberg 980,000 articles submitted 



Wednesday, 29 September 2021

Wednesday, 22 September 2021

REMINDER: FALL INTO WINTER PREPARATIONS

FALL INTO WINTER PREPARATIONS

💧Pruning

Cleaning up the debris from the planting areas

Sowing any cover crops for the winter

Taking Up any bulbs that need to be wintered over inside

Rain Barrels - empty and clean with bleach water before storing

Taking up any temporary fencing 

Giving the closets a proper cleanup with bleach or other disinfectant 

Sorting the chaos from the storage closets

Drying any seed heads that you want to save for the next year 

Cleaning and disinfecting tools 
  (Make sure to use bleach water or disinfectant, and use silicon spray or wd40, or vegetable oil for metal tools to prevent rust).

Prepare the garden area by raking and cleaning the debris, then either sowing cover crops, mulching over, or covering with weed fabric. 


 

TWO POSITIVE THINGS WE CAN ALL HAVE