Connecting With Nature
I am happiest when I have my hands in the dirt planting something, there's just something that is very elemental to me, maybe it's the nurturer in me, that wants to make everything for everyone better, or maybe it's just giving a hand to create new living organisms that makes it special, whatever the reason, I look at is as a wonderful gift from the creator.
I think where some of us are soul bound to the plants and ground others are more in tuned with just creating a perfect garden. However in doing that, they miss out on the joys that unexpected rootings of new seedlings that blew in by the wind bring, the joy of seeing that the rosemary branch I laid on the ground has actually put down roots, or the joy of seeing that first ripe tomato in the summer. I spend an inordinate amount of time just watching the bees and when butterflies come by I am happier than a kid with a raspberry blue slushie and a blue tongue. In America I had many butterflies covering my butterfly bushes and other plants everyday in the summer, here in Europe there are not so many to be seen where I am, and that makes me sad. I have attempted to create a natural habitat in my allotments for the butterflies and bees, as well as the birds (I am not so popular with my gardening neighbors over the birds) ahem, however I am not deterred by that. I respect my gardening neighbors, and I respect nature, and birds are certainly playing a huge role in our ecosystem. Most people know of my love for the bees, butterflies, dragonflies and birds, but I had never had a hummingbird actually land on me until I came here. I was outside and I had on my ugly Hawaiian shirt, it had huge flowers on it in vivid colors and I was pulling weeds out of my rockbed, I stood up and this tiny little bird just hovered in front of me, then darting to the flowers on my shirt. It looked like a mini helicopter it was so fast, he darted away and my heart fell, but he immediately returned and attempted a few more times, I was holding my breath afraid to move that I would scare him away, and just for a brief second he landed, that was one of the most beautiful moments of my life. One of my other experiences here was going to a recreation park and the group that takes care of hurt wildlife had a huge owl, I was allowed to hold him on my arm and that was just a wonderful feeling to be that close to a fully grown owl that could literally peck my eyes out had he chosen to. I was so saddened to hear later that he was stolen, I can only hope that who ever took him gave him a good home.
So connecting with nature isn't always about growing things, it's about the deepest feelings that we have for living things, albeit plants, animals etc. It's a spiritual connection that reaches deep into our souls and finds the best part of us, the part that we do not really share readily with the world. It has been my experience that most gardeners are very honest and kind people, but there is always the proverbial bad apple, but even with that, they too can find a spiritual connection with mother nature's beautiful environment and be transpired to new heights in their lives, after all, none of us are perfect, and we all have traveled roads that have ultimately helped shape and define our lives.
MUSIC TO MY EARS
The birds make beautiful music, and I always think the plants appreciate the sounds also, but did you know that they actually do respond to music? While we may not see eyes and ears on our plants, they are actually living and breathing, just not in the same way we do, so is it so far fetched to believe that they too enjoy giving us pleasure? How would one test that? I have no idea, but I do feel like some days a plant just goes out of its way to bloom early to make me smile. Perhaps that's God's way of giving me incentive, but whatever it is, that makes me feel connected more to the living part of life.
According to Aerify, and I quote: "There have been multiple studies regarding the potential impact of music on plants. One study, conducted in 1962, found that the growth rate of plants can be accelerated when plants are exposed to music. This study found that different types of music, including classical music and raga music, all had an impact on a plant’s growth rate."
So enjoy the garden and play them some special tunes, or perhaps just sing them a song, (unless you are tone deaf, then please don't, I don't want angry posters telling me their plant died after they sang to it. :) Ok, now I am seeing that in my head and laughing.
Let's enjoy what we have, we never know what the future holds, and as Corona has shown us, we can be stuck indoors like prisoners. So live it up, go have that fake cocktail in the garden.

